Most couples already know something is off. What they do not have is a way to say it plainly, hear it without a fight, and see whether it is getting better. That is the whole job of this app.
Free to start · Private by default · Both of you, one subscription
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One of you signs up and invites the other by email. You are paired, but you do not share a login — your answers are typed into your own private account, on your own phone.
You each pick the categories you are willing to be graded on. Only the ones you BOTH choose count. If one of you is not ready to be graded on intimacy or money, it simply is not asked.
Not about yourself — about your spouse. Each question is a plain statement, and you rate how true it is, from Excellent down to Poor. If something does not apply, you mark it N/A and it is left out of the maths entirely.
A grade tells them what. A note tells them why. These are optional, and they are the part most couples say lands hardest.
Every answer becomes points, every category becomes a grade, and the average becomes your Spouse GPA. It is private to you, and it carries forward — a lifetime record, not a monthly reset.
Each question is one sentence about your spouse, and you choose how true it is. It takes seconds, and it is far easier to answer honestly than "so, how do you think we are doing?"
Listens to me without getting defensive.
Reporting is a rhythm, not a chore. Pick the pace that you will actually keep, and change it whenever you like.
The default. One full report a month, about ten minutes.
A lighter, more frequent check-in for couples working on something now.
Something happened today and you want it recorded while it is fresh — good or bad — without waiting for the next report.
No reminders at all. Report when you feel like it. Your grade waits.
Your results are yours. Your spouse does not see your grades, your GPA or your history unless you decide to share them. Nobody is ranked against anybody else, and nothing is posted anywhere.
Communication is free forever. The other 28 categories unlock with Full membership, and only one of you needs to pay.
